Ok, I finaly did it, I rolled my Q3A server over to CPMA from OSP, no you can't have the IP, as me and my mates play on it for fun, when I can be bothered turning it on.
Now, even tho my mates connect to it with pings of 14-30, they still complain of lag sometimes.

Now I've rolled it over to CPMA, the first thing out of my mates mouth who was helping me test it: "Wow, this is just like on LAN!" Yeh, thats cool

Lateron that night I played another mate.
Waa: Hmm... sounds differnt
DasBok: 'cause thers no lag?
Waa: This is better, i know what i'm doing now
Waa: Hey, I actualy hit a rail
DasBok: Notice the progresive stats?
Waa: Thats cool!

I think I know what they prefer