''The only problem I forsee going part time is becoming lazy and unmotivated. If that happens I'll go back full time.''


depends if you really use your time for study

That's what I'm talking about.

When I was unemployed a few years ago, I had all day to do stuff and what did I do? Nothing but play QL and jerk off.

It seems the more time I have off, the less motivated I become. I'm gonna try my best not to let this happen again. If I do see it happen, i'll go back full time or increase my hours atleast.

what's wrong in playin ql and jerking off?

Unproductive (apart from warding off testicular cancer)

One of them is a waste of valuable time which could have been spent jerking off.

Take it from some one who is doing something similar at the moment. If you plan on studying - then study.

That means more than just reading however, making detailed notes, prep papers and what not. I'm preparing to write a thesis so I have a fair degree of focus - which is indispensible!

What about sharing a flat?

With someone I don't know? That would be my last option, I wouldn't perticularly want to.

It can be a pretty fun experience, you know. Meeting new people and lifestyles and such.
Also you really shouldn't be scared of people you don't know. Just get to know them.

In the UK, there are a lot of fucked up ppl that you don't want to get to know... like me.

I would recommend sharing a flat to cut down costs.

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and in usa too, i guess, they have something like a "roommate",
but still this notion is somehow completely alien to me,
can't imagine to share a room with someone else,
toilet/shower o.k., but not the same room, that is a bit too much imho

yea roommates are very common in usa

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better get a pillow teacher.

Lived with a friend in a 2 bed flat for a few years which was fun, then had a complete stranger move in (pub interview) which was good you meet a completely new set of people. Have also lived in flatshares (basically ensuite rooms with shared kitchen, an 'adults' dorm which was less good) - ok if you're just looking for cheap temporary but would never stay there for more than few months.

Can't imagine sharing a room with someone other than your other half specially a stranger that'd be too weird (and the snoring!).

lol, works pretty well for a few million students

Go to the library to study, or anywhere that isn't home really.

Going to a place specifically to study will help you focus more, even if you lose some time due to travel; you'll have less distractions and going to a specific place sets you into a work frame of mind.

It's science or some kinda clever bullshit.

free tibet

edit: also moving in with people you don't know can potentially be great and if it's terrible you'll at worst get some funny stories out of it

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LOL

in my residence room I had no internet,
in the library I had,
guess where studying was easier :-)

*share a flat
*commit to a work day schedule for studying

:d

are any of your friends sharing a flat with someone? having a bachelor pad with a bedroom for each person can't be too bad, even with relatively unknown people. unless your parents live close to where you work, i would just stay home too and save the 'rent' money for later.

All of my friends live at home still (and they are my age), lets just say were a special bunch. At least I'm trying to do something about the situation :)

living at home is not that bad, in my bachelor I lived at home ...
had good internet, had big room, always food on the table and washed clothes ... had good bike tracks right in front of the house ...
tbh. I would chose to live with my parents while studying if possible :-)

where do you take the ladies?

he goes to their place

actually my place in the residence right now is one of the ugliest places around, and it's only a small room, it's not really good to take the ladies there, it's better to go to their place :-) ... my fault for taking it, in my next year which is my last year I get myself a nice appartement .... otherwise I don't really see a problem to take a girl to your parent's home ... maybe you don't appear as independent, but that is the only problem, really I don't think it is necessary for studiying, cause you can concentrate better then on your studies ...
when you are about to work it's better though to live in your own appartement , you have more time and you are financially independent .... there are people who get themselves a room in the same town where their parents live, that's just akward ... and most of my previous classmates go to a town 100 km away in bigger towns to get an appartment there, I mean if you are already getting an appartment why not move away really far, e.g. in another country ... then you will really profit ... but moving away 100 km and paying for a room there is so lol ... and then they go home on weekends to get heir clothes washed ... lol

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you hear other people going at it too. does sharing the kitchen make it that much worse? this sounds like a paranoid gf excuse.

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kitchens are good

Start your own business. Fairly fun.

Is that what you're doing?

Yeah, past year I've been working on a website and have registered a company and everything, I'm practically ready to start selling the service, but I just got some contract work so I can get some more cash before I start sales and marketing. I've pretty much spent my savings from europe on this.

nice, good luck with that and perhaps even reaping the revenues :)
I guess that 'saving up' thing is pretty important, but once you do, anyone should be able to take a stab at it, if they have the ideas. even, i think, if they are taking something away from whether they are leaving in the process

The more I've worked I've realized that I am always making money for someone else. It's like we are making £100 an hour for every hour that I work, but I only earn £10 an hour (for example).

So I wanted to get out of that... it's been interesting, but it's hard being by yourself. I'm getting good support from friends and family, I've even been given funds when I've run out. The idea is great though, and I really wanted to get back into development. So I could either pay someone money and study, or actually work on something and get real experience, and have something for it at the end of it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oINYKi3g_D4

:(

Now every time I read your name, I'm going to think it like that guy who introduced him.

Phew im saved. Its actually Jeemerio!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oINYKi3g_D4&t=0m45s

He's annoying as hell.

I actually thought you were black 20 something previously.

And yes that guy's annoying and unfunny.

get a council yard, last month you were going to ask for a pay rise

put your name on the council flat list, if you are not desperate or homeless, you will still be in the list and get a place in 2 years time, unless you are made homeless then you tell them all the hate in your life, and maybe make some shit up

if your not a pikie and say your not real desperate for a place, you might be made a shortlist of homies who end up with a place in a few months, and be classed as a good tennant

my condolences about ur friend

Deserves the official [Six16] seal.

thats a plan.
dont be afraid and just choose :P

Just got back from the grave yard. It was very sad, my mum saying "goodbye" really put a tear in my eye. :,(

I would blame god for this.

you get scotch eggs when you get home, and a big pile of um

losing a loved one is always bad. worrying that other people cry, however, should not be an issue. we are all human and dealing with a lost soul sometimes requires some tears as compensation.

u still living with parents...
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and u living with a 34yo womans with kids

"mainly because I can't afford to live alone (on my full time salary) and my friends certainly don't want to move out any time soon"

LOL. As you said your friends are your age as well, I recommend you either use your own judgement about life decisions or make some new friends. I mean, I moved out when I was 19..

I think you could probably get a much nicer place in Estonia than in the UK. I have lived in the UK and visited friends in other countries in Europe, and nearly always they had much better accommodation.

You need to start earning above an average wage to have a place to yourself, otherwise you land up sharing with a bunch of folk just so you can have some spending money. And I certainly wouldn't want to live like that. (Although I have)

I have stayed in a house with 12 other people and I was paying £510 per month (including bills). Granted this was in London, but the conditions were appalling. The last place I stayed in was much nicer, where the rent was about £530 per month, and there were just 3 of us in a flat.

Anyway, I have since moved back into my parents house (In SA) and don't see myself moving out until I can afford my own place, or have the opportunity to share with maybe 1 or 2 other people. It is also common for people to only leave home once they buy a property.

lol, estonia sux hard... ex CCCP country...

That means nothing, my ex-gf in Slovakia had a really nice place and I think she was paying like €150 per month. Another friend of mine was sharing a flat in berlin with 1 other person and she was also paying something like €200 or something similar. And I myself was able to rent a flat in the very centre of Prague for 2 weeks and it was only ~€420. Bear in mind that this was short term holiday accommodation.

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These are all European countries, it's not like I'm comparing different continents.

Sure, you would earn less in SK, but what you would earn in DE would be similar to the UK. You definitely get more for your money out of the UK. (Although I hear up north prices aren't too bad, but I don't think sixsixteen is that far up.)

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Eh... I did.

Like a year ago.

The UK median salary is about 3 times higher than in Estonia, which is roughly 3 times higher than Bulgaria.

The differences between European countries are way larger than you think, mate.

My point is that it would still be easier to live by yourself in better conditions in Estonia than in the UK.

I welcome you to come to Estonia and try. For some reason, all of the morons here want to go from Estonia to the UK for a better life, not the other way around.

PS. And I would love to visit Estonia, maybe one day i will get around to it :)

try to live for 2euro for food per day if u r jobness... hf man )))

In LTU you can get 1000 free flats to live alone, not share it, just need to pay for electricity, water, heating(in winter) :D ofcors , not 5 stars rooms, but normal.

Here you can build your own shack for free

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons...a_pano.jpg

;)

The mountain in the distance is where Table Mountain / Cape Town is.

lol :D I am not talking about minus 5 stars rooms :)))))

And Lithuania wasnt???

He's just annoyed that Estonia is wealthier than Lithuania :[

Lithuania is worse 3 times, but still EE sux hard, believe me :D

I really doubt that. A smaller apartment in the capital (not downtown) can be had for about 200-300€ + bills (which will be as high as 200€ during winter with heating and whatnot), while the average net wage is about 650€. Food prices are a bit lower than in the UK but not by that much.

I suspect it's more to do with what people expect to have as 'some spending money' in different countries.

Is that a small apartment sharing with someone? Because if not that's insanely cheap, even taking into account the average wage. If I wanted my own apartment in London I would have needed to spend like 80% of my salary after tax on rent.

"Some spending money" I could say something like going out once a week, which for me was like £200 to £300. Food was about £200 per month.

£200-300

i'm curious

1 band show can be 20 to 100 pounds. I would go out drinking like once a week, which would be 30 pounds x 4. I would go on a day trip out, say twice a month, so thats like 20 pounds x 2. Then there might be birthdays or unplanned events.

I'm not a party animal or anything, I don't think that that is so much? Unless you think it is a little?

Well, to compare, if I were to go out to a bar/club I'd spend 40 PLN. I'll assume you are talking about ze british currency: 40 Polish zloty = 8.76060662 British pounds

If I were to go out just to get a couple beers, I'd probably spend 20.

Well yes, it's far more expensive in the UK. I remember in Slovakia everyone kept buying me drinks, so one of the times I insisted that I paid for everyone. When the person brought me the bill it was something like 8 euro for 4 rounds between 4 people.

Going to clubs in London is a sure way to spend a lot of money. At least 10 pounds entrance and every drink will be 5 pounds or more.

The only place that i've seen more expensive was Sweden, which was just insane. It was like 8 pounds for a beer. Italy was also really expensive.

ps. are your salaries really that low? That's like equal to the average wage in south africa.

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The job I just got pays roughly 4 times the average salary here. I'm earning more than what I earned in London.

To answer the other thing you said: Cape Town is the best place on earth :P

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Errrr for money? Why pay rent? I'll either be paying £700 per month or living in shitty conditions with students and other scum, and I stay in a really really nice area.

ps. And you probably just offended coloured's everywhere, depicting them as rapist drug addicts. Nice one.

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Yes of course I know the term. ALL coloureds are cape coloureds. You just described them as drug addicted rapists, they won't be particularly pleased with your joke.

Yeah probably. I want to get to the point where I live half the year in EU and the other half in CT.

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There are many reasons. Firstly, I am self employed. (I am a developer, I can live anywhere.) Secondly, you only pay tax in a country if you are there over 180 days (or close to that.) Thirdly, if you think £700 is a lot of money.... well...

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I CAN afford to live alone, but it's a waste of money, did you just miss everything I said? If you want to safe up for family and a property why would you move out? You could wait until you have enough for a bond and then buy a property. Surely that makes more sense?

And those were London costs, here I spend like £100 a month for going out.

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I am planning on being rich enough to do it. And you can easily earn enough in SA. Educated professionals earn the same amount as what they do elsewhere. We have a lot of unemployment and a lot of unskilled labour, but everyone skilled earns good salaries.

Like I mentioned in my earlier post: this may come as a surprise to you, European countries have way, way different levels of income and cost of living.

BTW, (300+200)/650 is pretty damn close to 80%, and comparing a major metropolis and a town with a population of 400,000 isn't really fair. How much is the rent in Reading?

I am aware of the differences, I didn't expect them to be that large though, I thought Estonia was pretty well off actually, (Although I don't really know much about it.)

But I have been to Poland and Slovakia which I am assuming is similar. The standard of living was pretty good there.

I'm not that sure of the rent in Reading, but anything close to or south of London can still be pretty expensive.

(Just going to answer other post here)

Well I was specifically speaking about accommodation in the UK vs elsewhere. I am assuming that there are probably many things that are better in the UK, such as healthcare and standard services. Also I would guess that a lot of people would go to the UK to save, which you can do, you just gotta live with 12 people, never go out and work as much as possible.

Well off is a comparative term.

Immensely better off than most of Africa or Asia, a bit better off than a lot of former USSR countries, quite a bit worse than countries that have not experienced war or occupation in the last 60 years. Slovakia and Poland have pretty much the same living standard as Estonia.

But you weren't talking about accommodation in the UK, you mentioned London specifically. I have a feeling accommodation in smaller towns further away is quite a lot cheaper, much the same way Moscow is insanely expensive even by foreign standards, even though the Russia itself is poor and you can buy a house for a thousand pounds in some remote location.

i moved out when i was 18... to army... SUCK IT

Army pays for your living and even gives you pocket money, so it's really like moving from your parents to your crazy uncle that molests you in your sleep.

if u think that 10euro per month u can call POCKET MONEY then i lold very hard. from this money u cant even go home and back to place... probally u wasnt even there if u started to talk about that money from goverment

people die, thats life (or not)

To live somewhere decent in the UK you're talking about 600-800 (if you're in london you have my sympathy) a month in rent/mortgage and utilities, that's over HALF the money a LOT of people in pretty good jobs earn. And renting is pissing money away.

By the time you factor in Food, petrol, car, insurance, spending money, going out etc, most people are broke and in debt.

The alternatives are parents/council or undesired sharing.

And with the avg house costing over 200k (thanks largely to the millions of immigrants who hamper our NHS and HOUSING/EDUCATION) the country is due for meltdown, you can already see it with the students, 9000 tuition fee, for several years, many of them 30k in debt before they land a job, many of which get paid less than 30k for years on end.

My friend just gave up his job (background check type thing) to do mobile pc repair and virus removal, fairly medial tasks, but he's on course for earning 40-50k a year and he does it with hours to suit which is handy as he just had a kid.

Today I just read some developer looking for a direct 3d programmer, you know skilled job, £23,000 a year for someone pretty damn smart while my friend earns DBL that running Malwarebytes and a few fairly basis pc tasks for the general public and dictates his own hours. Tempted? Ok he's not being pushed professionally, when you're earning DBL your last job and not having to get up at 730 every morning, traffic, home late, it makes more and more sense.

It just goes to show how badly paid most jobs are and how most people become slaves to them just so they can live!

I'd do the whole PC repair thing but my area is saturated with people doing the same. Otherwise i'd make the effort to give it a go.

[edit] Also, I agree with the whole housing costs thing.

I fear when my parents move Cyprus (~1 year away) I will end up house sharing with unknowns. Hopefully I will be earning enough to have my own place by then, but who knows.

How much do you promote it though?

Its all about advertising really and once you get a customer, they tend to be yours for life assuming you did a good job for them.
And often they will recommend you to others.

If all you do is advertise through google then yes, its saturated, but if you're smart/cheeky, you could get a big part of the market depending on how and where you advertise.

There's a local news magazine thing that contains adverts for businesses, that would be the best place to advertise. Like I said, its saturated with "PC Repair" companies. Google's even worse, but I wouldn't advertise there (just probably list the company).

I did have an idea to advertise "PC Tune up" type business but I'm not sure how it would be received. People always seem to complain of a slow PC. Maybe that would be my angle, as opposed to repairing.

pc tune up would do well IMO. Watch this space :)

WOuld have to do it on some kind of large scale though where you could do many at once.

Have you just stole my idea? Damn you!

Anyways, I'm really not thinking about doing it for real.. The idea of me working part time was to spend my time learning new things and possible try and get some experience.

Gosh, stop being such a wuss. You don't get thrown in somewhere with people you don't, you actually CHOOSE the people you'll live with.

Ye i know, it's not as bad as I'm making out, but it's still my least preferable way of moving out.

spoilt, lol :p

And renting is pissing money away

==> from an economic pov it's wrong. It's a bet on how you forecast the real estate market, like buying a house is the opposite bet

why cant you rent on your own? i dont have a particularly well paid job but i was living in a nice flat (above average for this area) for about a year with no problems.

Why:

Current expenditure=
£160 loan (car/credit cards)
£40 insurance (car)
£25 phone bill
£175 rent (@home)
Total =£400

Expenditures if I move out=
£500 rent (that's what it cost for 1bed flat in the area i currently live)
£100? bills (gas/elec)
£100? food (no idea how much i'd spend monthly..)
+ £225 from current expenditures (-home)
Total = £925

Doesn't really leave me with much left from my salary.

I worked out if I earned another £3k / year I could probably survive alright.

yeah my flat was 450 a month and my expenditures were about the same minus the loan. it did eat alot of money but i didnt want to live with any of my mates and was nice to have my own place.

so you must look for better paid job for such expenditures. In example I am living in a shared flat and paying £360 including all bills and internet. Hell I hate it so much, but can't do anything about it at the moment. Mainly I am looking for my own place, but ads(newspaper,rightmove.co.uk and etc) which I look through are too expensive or just unsuitable for living without investing some amount into it. I keep my food limit around £100 per month. And personal expenditures doesn't exceed £150 per month. So total amount which I spend for living is about ~£600 per month. As you see I keep everything at minimum and it works for me. I save much more at this rate :) And by the way work hard, full time and invest your free time wisely so you can double your salary every year or two.

First return on search for work / jobs so this'll do...

Regretting adding workmates to FB as I can't vent on there!

I've had such a shit fucking day that I've even have some of my staff contact me to see if I'm ok. This made me smile & has cheered me up something rotten. But my colleagues are so fucking incompetent it's unreal & I'm sick and fucking tired of taking the slack to protect them. I can barely stand the wench yet it's my nature to cover.

I want to kill something so badly right now.

Fire them, as a slack employee myself you would be doing me and yourself a favour. If you're not the boss, speak to him/her.

Try and work for yourself, the main thing that prompted me to work for myself is getting up in the morning.

I didn't work 9-5. I worked 7am-630pm cos I have to get up for work to be ready/arrive for 9 by the time I got home, then I was so fucked from the day I didn't want to do anything.

So for me the investment of working for other people = 12 hours.
I spend 8 sleeping.
So that gives me 4 hours of free semi comotosed time a day AND that's without the silent expectation of working unpaid overtime and even if I did not work overtime, like i said, I was knackered from the day.

Honestly,employment for most people is slavery. And most people are still broke after than too.

Unless you have a an excptional job or you're young and naive and just grateful to do what you always to do (that changes BTW) then working for yourself is really the only option.

you don't even need to be that skilled to do it, just pick a service that people need and you enjoy doing.

You can pick your own hours and often earn way more than you get paid in a regular job. Honstly, its only when you go self emplyed do you realise how much of a slave you are.